i like this girl. weve been looking at each other for awhile (a year). we were both shy of each other. we finally broke the ice on myspace. we talked on there for 3 weeks and i told her i like her. she was stunned because we never spoke in person. i understand now i was a fool. she knows everything about me, my past, my life, some of my secrets only she knows because i told her. a month passed and we started talking again on myspace. weve never spoke on the phone, but she has heard my voice from one voicemail i sent her. we are friendly now but i sense she is not herself with me, maybe a bit shy. were taking the friendship thing slowly. i do not bombard her with messages. i give her space. how should i go about this? i really like evrything about her.the good and the bad. please help me?
GIRLS PLEASE HELP A LOST GUY OUT PLEASE, i appreciate it?
The problem is you've started with the wrong move. Like you said yourself, you've stunned her with your confession. Now, you need to forget about what you've done and start over.
Now that you've befriend her via myspace, it's time for you to take it to the next level. Meet her in person. First, you need to call her (not message her). Get her on the phone with you and tell her that you want to know more about her. Ask her if she wants to go out with you on a weekend... for lunch or movies. Basically, just to hang out together to get to know each other in person. If she's OK with that, that's a very good sign because she already knows that you like her and she's still OK with going out with you. Ask her out again a few more times. If all go well, you can ask her if she wants to go steady with you or not. This time, ask her in person. Don't message her via myspace or call her. Meet her. As a man, you have to be courageous and confident. If you're not brave enough to confess in person, how are you going to be brave enough to protect her from any danger when the two of you are a couple?
Good luck!
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