Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

Hi there, I am a 24 yr old male and am currently happily engaged.



I recently recieved a friends request on myspace from an unknown girl. I accepted this strangers friend request and noted that she was a pretty girl of my age from my own town. She has sent me a message but i cannot read it as i am at work. The thing is... Yesterday i was on my partners laptop and i noted that there is the exact same picture of this girl in her 'my pictures' folder. The picture is bigger and contains more people in it than the pic of the girls myspace profile. this leads me to believe that my fiancee has cut the pic down so it only shows the girl and has created a false myspace account for her to try and catch me out.



What should i do next? confront her or keep quiet and play along to double bluff her?



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

keep quiet, and dont play her game.and dont contact the other girl. you are being set up by a tricky woman



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

you should be honest with the "Fake" girl



DONT TELL you fiance you know yet, but be REALLY nice but be honest this way you fiance has no room to be upset...yet.



But what you do is lay down the foundation saying hot hot you fiance is to the fake girl and find out if the Fake girl would have a 3sum. Then later ask your fiance if she would so she knows its her you want but you want another woman for her pleasure!!!



Its a great plan, but on a serious note you have to be cautious about women who cook up plans to get their MAN in trouble cause you never know to what lengths they will go.



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

Neither. Ask her in a non-confrontational manner if she is behind this and, if so, tell her you don't appreciate being tested. Then drop it. If she denies it drop it. In either case, don't respond to the invitation.



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

Why are you so worried? Have you been cheating on her or something? Otherwise, why bother caring. If she wants to make a fake myspace and talk to you on it, indulge her.



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

What would you do if you didn't have this info. that is what you should do, if you are a dog she will sniff you out one way or another.



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

most times girls taste their guys on things like that to see how you will respond about it. if your are the kind of guy that is just interested in her or other women. she is trying you. so prove that you are faithful to her. and at the end she will ever love you and admit she was the one that sent that to your box



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

hell, do what most men would do and make plans to take this chick out. Not much of a man pig if you don't.



why not just come out and have the talk?? if you play games now, wht kind of mariage wil you have??



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

If there are that many trust issues on one side or the other you should not be engaged!



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

!KEEP QUIET! But play along, What you wanna do is, You wanna chat or whatever. And then Say no thanks Im already in a commitment. And tell your wife, OFF. And then tell her what happened!



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

Keep quiet. You will learn more about what is going on if you just play dumb. What is the worst case scenario? Prepare for the worst but hope for the best. If your boyfriend is just curious and wants to know this girl better then what are YOU goning to do about it? What would it gain to confront either one of them now. Its not like your are married or have a binding commitment.



Thank God you found out ahead of time as now you are prepared and I know it hurts now........just think how it will hurt down the road. Either way you lose if you show your cards at this time in the game. be cool but do not freeze your friend or your bf...



Is my fiancee trying to lay a trap on me?

The alternative might be that she's a friend of your fiancee and they have the same photo?



I'd ask her if she knows who that girl is, and then tell mystery woman that you're engaged.

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