What can you do if you believe a conspiracy is at play as to why no girls contact you or respond to

a relashionship just recentley finished with a girl i developed strong feelings for. i got to now her for two years on the internet, and we got quite serious about each other. but she lost her feelings for me, and told me she wasnt able to come to the uk now, but still wanted to be friends on msn messenger.

at one point she told me, she was moving to england, to be with me. and that she loved me very much. she was 20, im 29.

i let her no in an email that i had borderline personality disorder and i awaited therapy, weeks after thats when her feelings started to dwindle for me.

i strongly have paranoid feelings about this. i think an outside force, somebody, prevented me and her from developing our relashionship, i keep thinking she was talked out of it....plus i found out on myspace she had feelings for a guy her own age, and she admited to sleeping with to. i loved her, even though she was in canada, she was someone i wanted.

in general i keep thinkin someone is preventing me from

What can you do if you believe a conspiracy is at play as to why no girls contact you or respond to you?

I don't think there is any consiparacy at work here, I'm pretty sure you are sabotaging yourself. You are way too intense and scaring this girl away. Hell, you are scaring me and I don't even know you. Desperation is a stinky cologne that women can smell even across an ocean, so if I were you I would relax and not take myself too seriously and things will fall into place when they are supposed to. Good luck.

What can you do if you believe a conspiracy is at play as to why no girls contact you or respond to you?

i suggest you make an appointment to see a psychiatrist. I believe that he would be able to help you.

What can you do if you believe a conspiracy is at play as to why no girls contact you or respond to you?

I agree with Moonshine that you're probably sabotauging yourself. Also, you were reckless in letting such serious feelings develop for someone you really didn't know and it doesn't help any that you believed her bullsh*t about mvoing to England and how she loved you very much. She was playing mindgames! But, be honest, you knew that didn't you?

Work through these issues with your counselor. It's not healthy to develop fantasy relationships over the Internet.